Convergent Journey

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It’s Enough to Make You Wonder

Three questions:

  • Does this happen to other people too, or just me?
  • Are men in San Francisco crazy? (Yes.)
  • Or am I really just that hot?

Yesterday, as a guy prepares to get off the bus, he comes up to me and says:

You have the most beautiful hair in the goddamn world. You are a-DOR-able.You are my DREAM COME TRUE.

And I mean, he was saying this so loud, the entire bus was staring.

Another to add to the list of strange encounters and attempted pickup lines. If this keeps happening, I’m going to have to start a series. Like really.

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Toesocks! And other Travel Tips

Toesocks to prevent blisters. Shoes with soles that actually provide buffer from those cobblestone ridges. How to be kind to your feet without looking like a dorky American tourist in high-top sneakers and mid-calf socks. Satisfy the oft-incompatible criteria of sensibility and fashion sense.

Advice from tour guides in Europe–for whom walking well is essentially their livelihood–tells you all this and more in The New York Times‘ article, ”Shoes the Pros Use.”

Basically, this is the best thing about to happen to my summer travel wardrobe. No longer do I have to sacrifice style for comfort! Well, not that I ever did when traveling. I definitely was that dorky, unapologetic American tourist squeaking around town in my sneakers.

Grates

These sneaks traveled all over Europe.

These heeled sandals gave me blisters.

Montmartre, Paris

These boots battered the cobblestone until the heels collapsed.

windy

Oh yeah, and that’s me in my sneaks in Vienna, faceplanted by the wind into my map.

Time to do some online shopping! Read more @The New York Times.

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I Lack the Words.

My heart goes out to the people of Boston, of Waco, of Newtown, of too many towns and villages in this hard world that barely even make the headlines.
God of justice, God of mercy, make us merciful and just,
Help us see all your creation, as from you a sacred trust.
And when people cry in anguish for their own or other’s pain,
Show us ways to make a difference, O dear God make us humane!
How can we, as people chosen, by your grace for service here,
How endure another’s hardship without offering hope or cheer?
God, forgive us, we beseech you, when our love fails to empower.
Teach us how to be more faithful, in this present cruel hour.
Grant all people work with meaning, strength to care for those they love.
Food for table, truth for telling, challenges to rise above.
But remind us, God of justice, this is now our work, our call!
Changing life’s oppressive systems into ones empowering all.
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A Girl Walks into a Bar. So Many Times.

Flowers for my first day of work! Love.

I have walked into so many bars (ouch!) and coffee shops trying to find a job. Sooo many happy hours and business cards, cover letters and emails, and a fair share of ups and downs over the last few months. All I have to say about that is… job searching is no joke!

But after 16 weeks of living out of a suitcase, 14 weeks of couchsurfing around the Bay area and more interviews and applications than I care to count, I’m employed! I started work on Monday, moved into a sublet on Wednesday, and life is generally starting to feel a little less frenetic.

Hopefully that means I’ll start to have more time for blog-worthy adventures exploring California’s great outdoors! But in the meantime I’d thought I’d share my lesson-learned from job searching.

Job searching tip #1: Go to every happy hour / networking event you can work up the energy to go to. And then work up the energy to go to some more. Smile, make a good impression, get a business card, follow up. You never know which door you knock on will open.

That’s how I ended up in my job–I connected with my current boss at a happy hour a month ago. Good thing I walked into that bar!

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Milestones: My Blog and I Turn a Year Older

It’s been a year since I started blogging, and in that time I’ve:

  • had 1,000 cups of tea (give or take a few);
  • posted at least once a week in all but 4 of the past 52 weeks;
  • written 142 posts about my year abroad;
  • taken 13 trips around Europe;
  • and, hopefully, been interesting enough to merit the 20K+ views I’ve earned.

The question now is… What next?

Answer: I’m not sure myself. I graduated from the LSE in July, traveled around Switzerland, roadtripped with the fam to Cape Cod, caught up with friends in New York, and finally made it to the Bay area. I am quite happily funemployed at present, applying to jobs, cooking and baking and making milkshakes, watering B’s garden, doing yoga, going biking and hiking and generally trying to enjoy this as much as I possibly can. Unemployment can be incredibly stressful, so I’m just focusing on the fact that once I have a job, I won’t have what is currently my one commodity: time.

That is, in addition to time, I am incredibly blessed to have the absolutely immense generosity of friends: R&B I can’t thank you enough; A&N you two are so thoughtful; L&K and A thanks for welcoming me to SF; E thankyousosomuch for trusting me with your car! (Besides that one time I almost left-turned into the left lane because England got me all mixed up, I’m happy to report there have been no mishaps.)

Next question.. What happens to the blog?

Again, not quite sure, but I’m determined to keep it up. In many ways, blogging has made me push myself harder than I would otherwise. Today, for instance, I was exhausted after hosting an epic 10-hour-long birthday party yesterday, so I was tempted to stay home while my friends went hiking. But I told myself that there might be some good photos along that hike, so I dragged myself off the couch. And I’m so glad I did.

Question three… Did you say, “epic 10-hour-long bday party”?

Why, yes! One of the things I miss most about London is afternoon tea. So for my birthday, I invited friends over for tea, scones with jam and clotted cream, and cucumber sandwiches. All of it was homemade except for the jam, and even homegrown thanks to B’s vegetable garden!

A made fresh-picked cucumber and basil sandwiches. I did my best to make scones using A(b)’s grandmother’s recipe, but converting grams and millilitres to cups is always tricky. Mostly played this by ear.

The scones turned out okay, whew! I also made clotted cream using this recipe, but I went easy on the sour cream as it’s a bit overpowering.

I invited the girls to come over at 2pm, as tea is kind of a dainty affair; the boys would join at 4pm for board games. Umm we ran out of scones and sandwiches so I put out some chips and beer for the guys:

Puhahaha. Guys, if you’re reading this… sorry. We totally underestimated how much food we would need!

From 4pm until 12.30am, we played:

  • 4-7pm. Pictionary-phone, which is just about my favorite party game ever. It’s a combination of pictionary and telephone. How it works: each person holds a stack of cards, which go around the circle simultaneously (so everyone is writing or drawing at the same time). The first person writes a word or phrase, and the next person draws it; s/he then passes the drawing to the next person, who has to write down what s/he thinks the drawing depicts; who passes it on to the next person, and so on. It’s outrageous. Here’s one round:

 

“Thank you” is depicted through ways a person might give thanks…

The next person guesses the different scenarios represent “yes, no or maybe,” which elicits a pretty reasonable drawing…

Which then becomes multiple choice questions…. which then becomes.. sperm?!?! I was the last person in this round, so I had to look at the above drawing and figure out what it meant. My guess:

  • 7-10pm. Mafia. Ready, vote!

  • 10-12.30am. Four on a couch. Trying to think of another game to play, I only remembered the title of this game, and the fact that I had played it once in college. The only thing I remembered about the game at all was having an absolute riot. But I’m so glad it occurred to me, because once we figured out how to play, we again had an absolute riot!

In sum? I’ll keep blogging, if you’ll keep reading. Thanks for traveling with me thus far!

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Milestones: Rediscovering My Inner Introvert
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